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Parenting Tips for Parents to Make They Good and Successful Parents

Tips for parents looking to change their parenting style:

  • Determine the temperament of your child, its main features. Observe him in different situations, how he copes with difficulties, anger, how he establishes social contacts, what role he takes in the group, etc.
  • Accept it as it is. Respect his personality, do not force him to do something contrary to his own nature. Accept him as he is even when he doesn't know how to do his homework. It is at this moment that he needs your help and support and with the help you will be good at it. This resource will serve you well in raising and educating your child.
  • Motivate your child. Use more rewards, praise, gratitude, and rewards than punishments. If you see that the child is good at doing his homework, then praise him. It means he learned to use which helped him a lot in achieving such results. Thanks for such resources.
  • Respect yourself. Not everything that you have planned will come easily to you. When you make mistakes, do not despair, know and remember your strengths and weaknesses. When you don't know how to help your child with homework, admit it to yourself. You will be motivated to seek help in and this will benefit you and your child. In this way, you will be like an authority in the eyes of your child.
  • Don't be afraid that your child will stop loving you if you change something in the same parenting style.
  • Do not forget that permission for something is one thing, and indulgence is quite another thing.
  • Be polite but firm. Create a clear, expressive system of requirements and prohibitions. Only in this way the child will get a chance to understand what the parents demand of him.
  • While setting the rules, offer your child help at the same time, for example by teaching them other common forms of expressing negative emotions.
  • Always handle the punishment for breaking the rules with caution and calm, and never in anger. You can not additionally punish a child for the fact that he indignantly speaks out that he does not like prohibitions. He must follow the rules, but he is not obliged to love them at all.

Authority - what it is and how to build it: advice to parents

Authority is “something” in a parent that makes a child submit to his will, in order to feel safe and calm and have no doubts about what to do and how to behave lead. For a young child, mother and father are the only source of a sense of security, those people who are able to solve any problem and dispel any doubt. Parental authority stems from the very relationship between parent and child. In turn, the baby responds to his parents for safety, closeness and support with uncritical worship, trust and faith.

This happens until the period of growing up, that is, until the child masters the art of collecting information and begins to analyze it and generalize. As they get older, the child will be able to analyze parental behavior and come to the conclusion that our actions are not always perfect and we often bypass the truth. So he begins to understand that dad is not the strongest, and mom is not the wisest. But can we say that at this moment the parental authority is “condemned to be overthrown from the pedestal”? Not at all.

To maintain a good relationship with your child and your credibility, adhere to the following guidelines:

  • Never lie to your child. Tell him the truth at the level of his understanding, or refuse to voice it altogether if you think that even its simple form will be too difficult or dangerous for the child. Say, “I’ll make sure to tell you later, when you’re a little older,” is better than giving your child confusing and worrying answers.
  • Make sure that your words do not diverge from your actions and deeds. Do not do what you condemn, and do not condemn what you do.
  • Don't pretend you know something if you don't. Be honest that you do not know, but you will find out - and by all means keep your word.
  • Always keep your word!
  • Be consistent without fanaticism. Let your child always have the opportunity to discuss something important with you and have honest negotiations. Don't be afraid to change your mind if you hear your child's reasonable arguments.
  • Feel free to express your views, but do not confuse your opinion with commands and prohibitions.
  • Don't be afraid to admit your mistakes to your child and even apologize if you were wrong.
  • Don't be hypocritical and two-faced. Do not delight in your aunt's visit demonstratively, and when the door closes behind her, do not speak ill of her.
  • If you forgot something or did not keep your word, do not justify yourself by the circumstances.
  • At home, do not speak contemptuously about people whom you shake hands or greet first on the street.
  • If your child (regardless of age) speaks to you seriously, listen seriously and answer him seriously.
  • Never make fun of a child or take the side of his opponent, especially in the presence of peers.

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